a night sans donovan

i had my first night away from donovan. some of my oldest and closest friends still live in asheville and i have been looking forward to a girl's night with them. my wish was granted by my fabulous husband who showed no signs of distress about a guys night with donovan. part of this confidence comes from just being a good dad, and the other part comes from dan needing to be the best at everything. this means that if anything went less than perfect i would never hear a thing about it, and means that he cannot reveal any feelings of doubt....or at least that is what i tell myself. i benefit from dan's competitiveness in obvious ways of throwing him a challenge and he accepting without a flinch, and in other ways i have to compete with him....like being the best mom.

much like you may expect guys weekend went on without a hitch, and to top it off i came home to a clean house and dinner....again, do i compete with this or sit back, enjoy, and hand out more challenges? the pictures are pictures that dan sent me while i was a way....you know to prove the ease of the night.




you may be wondering how the night in asheville went and all i can say is it was fabulous......and what happens in asheville stays in asheville :)